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I am not sure what you are going through, but if you need someone to talk to just hollar. I am currently in the middle of a divorce. It is tough, very tough, but there is light at the end of the tunnel, I just know there is......

Koi

*HUG*!!!!!!!!!!

Empty chairs at empty tables, the room silent, forlorn.

Sorry to hear that you are going through some rough times. I can relate as Danielle and I are also going through some rough times.

But that is just one reason why I love her. She's right there for me when I need her, even after I take my anger out on her. She accepts me for who I am, not what I am.

Plus she's cute too

Last edited by Racso at 17-Nov-2004 20:38

SINGS

"I’m not in love, so don’t forget it
It’s just a silly phase I’m going through
And just because I call you up
Don’t get me wrong, don’t think you’ve got it made.
I’m not in love, no no!

It’s because ...

I like to see you, but then again
That doesn’t mean you mean that much to me
So if I call you, don’t make a fuss
Don’t tell your friends about the two of us
I’m not in love, no no!
It’s because ...

Be quiet, Big boys don’t cry, Big boys don’t cry, Big boys don’t cry, Big boys don’t cry, Big boys don’t cry, Big boys don’t cry

I keep your picture upon the wall
It hides a nasty stain that’s lying there
So don’t you ask me to give it back
I know you know it doesn’t mean that much to me
I’m not in love, no no!
It’s because

Ooh, you’ll wait a long time for me
Ooh, you’ll wait a long time

I’m not in love, so don’t forget it
It’s just a silly phase I’m going through
And just because I call you up
Don’t get me wrong, don’t think you’ve got it made
I’m not in love, I’m not in love."

Spouse and I have been going thru a bit of a rough time, so I thought I'd post this question: right now, today, are you in love? Not with your children, fish, or other pets but with your spouse or a significant other.

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There is water at the bottom of the ocean

...am currently single, again.

LADIIEEEES?

Just kidding.

Other...?

Ummmm well I seem to be in a constant state of wondering if particular guys have any feelings for me as far as "love" and asking myself the same question about them. Meh, college sophomore and I haven't had a boyfriend since kindergarten. Haven't ever had a proper date. I might as well say no.

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other.......
i dont really have any time any more with school,sports and my fish where would i fit any 1 in?

Hmmmmm...

No.

Toughy that one.

Oh and i hope things sort out for you.

-- Gomer

I fell in love with Hank before I ever set eyes on him.

He and I both were coming off pretty horrible relationships and a friend of both of us introduced us via the internet. Imagine the whole 'You've Got Mail' scenario, only 270 miles apart. The day we finally met in person was a confirmation of what we both were feeling but felt too silly to say in email. He came to visit me on Valentines Day almost five years ago and hasn't left yet! (Well, OK, mini visits back to New York, but that be it)

He is the love of my life.

other (please explain)

I am the realist here perhaps. This very moment, no, i'm not in love. I love my BF dearly, but right now, i do not feel IN LOVE, and that is perfectly fine by me. Hopefully by him too

I suppose it depends on how you define IN LOVE and LOVE.

For me, in love is butterflies, or that smile lighting up the room, or just that warm feeling.

Currently, i have a few personal issues to deal with, and i am running somewhat on autopilot, so being IN LOVE has had to take a back seat to NOT FALLING TO BITS.

my NOT FALLING TO BITS is very important to my BF, so if that means that i have only brief periods of IN LOVE during a day, then i think thats gotta be acceptable really.

Besides, butterflies all the time is EXHAUSTING!

Don't get me wrong, this guy is my best friend, my one and only etc etc, but as your question was at this very moment, and you seemed to be searching, then, well, i told the truth as it stands tonight.



For animals, the entire universe has been neatly divided into things to (a) mate with, (b) eat, (c) run away from, and (d) rocks. - Terry Pratchett

I was once, with him for 8 years and married for over 5. But being left with a 16 month old baby (who was sick with problems of being premature) and no job kinda killed that. I guess I have decided that the only one I can rely on is myself. That makes it hard for some people to deal with. I am too independant now.

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If at first you DO succeed, try not to look astonished.

Nope. Nope. Nope. The only man in my life is two and a half feet tall, bald headed and has five teeth.

I was once, with him for 8 years and married for over 5. But being left with a 16 month old baby (who was sick with problems of being premature) and no job kinda killed that. I guess I have decided that the only one I can rely on is myself. That makes it hard for some people to deal with. I am too independant now.

AMEN

7 years 2 kids

Koi

Empty chairs at empty tables, the room silent, forlorn.

My wife and I celebrated 31 yrs of married life last May.
The level of love, freindship, respect, and dedication to each other has become more solid and stable over the years.

We have gone through a lot, as most relationships have.
But the most trying was when I had my heart attack last year,it drew us closer which I did not think possable, because I thought we were as close as we could be.

I wish that all couples can feel the same as I do now after the length of time together.
I know that most of what I have said sounds like a clich&#233;, and sounds very soppy, but believe me it is true.
Theresa, I trully hope everthing works out for you, I am sure with a little work it will.
All the best to you.
Tom.

sorry about that,


yes i guess so, i know i have no chance tho but wat the hey

Actually Calla...

What I am feeling is very real. I almost feel sorry for someone that thinks that the "in love" feeling doesn't exist or isn't realistic past a certain point in a relationship.

I STILL get the "butterflies" that you talk about when I look across the room and see Hank. I still am amazed that such a man picked me. I am every bit (if not more) IN love with him today as the first day that my heart skipped a beat when he first touched my arm.

I can tell you this, I have loved three men in my life. Never once have I felt the intensity of love that I do with Hank. I thank my lucky stars every day that I was blessed with this kind of relationship.

Theresa... I am so sorry that you are going through what you are. I know it is tough. If you want an unbiased mind to bounce thoughts off of, I am here. Take Care...

Tammy

Nah.. Im not really into all of that dating stuff- at least not now. All the guys in high school are still pretty immature(not saying im not HAHA ). but I have seen a few of my best friends go through the pain of breaking up and everything and i dont wanna go through that. I mean, whats the point of dating in high school? i think im gonna wait till after high school to really start dating cause then theres actually a point. and right now i really dont have time with school, and taking care of my fish and rodents!!!
-kristin

~!!I lOve LiFe!!~